Sunday, April 22, 2007
@11:57 PM
By actually taking others feelings into consideration every day can be considered graciousness already. So, what is so difficult about being gracious? Especially in public, girls must be gracious, not once your mouth is open, strings of vulgarities come out. You don't want people to think that you are a ''Ah Lian'' right? It would definitely be a disgrace to your family and teachers. So do not disappoint them. Being gracious is also to respect people and should also be looking at the bright side of things. AND! When you are gracious, guys would love it! So be a gracious young lady! A poem of Gracious.
When the opinions of others differ from yours,
When being criticised,
When your weaknesses are being pointed out,
When the actions and words of others do not agree with what you are used to,
When your suggestions are voided,
When others make mistakes,
When being misunderstood,
When being envied,
When being neglected,
The graciousness of tolerance will untie the knots in your mind.
When the thought of gracious tolerance arises,
Everything seems to have never happened before.
It vaporises, within a second as though it had never existed.
Now about healthy lifestyle,
have you noticed those panda rings around your eyes? If you did, i could have guessed that you are NOT leading a healthy lifestyle! Though studies is very important, you should also have balanced sleep!!Develop healthy coping skills and you will be able to have enough sleep. Do not play your computer games in the afternoon and only do your homework only in the night! It's definitely unhealthy! Living a healthy lifestyle also means that we have to eat moderately and keep a balance diet, we have to eat fruits and vegetables besides our usual meals, exercise regularly in order to keep fit and also have to look at the bright side of things so that it will make us happy, being happy will lead to a healthy lifestyle, because some people eat a lot when when are upset or angry. We should be happy everyday!
We think that it is very important to be gracious if not nobody would want to be friend with you. Not only that we also must maintain a healthy lifestyle and not eat too much or eat too little etc. And most importantly we know that we must be HAPPY all the times as life is short so we should treasure it and not torture ourselves.
HOW CAN WE PRACTICE IT IN OUT DAILY LIFE?
We could eat balanced meals, exercise regularly and develop healthy coping skills. To be a gracious lady, we will speak eloquently and politely, treat our friends, people who are of higher rank then us with respect and consideration. Most importantly adopt a positive attitude towards life.
